Pretty girl with a cruel streak? No precedent for my biggest turn-on, a pretty girl, but NOT a fierce-eyed, grimacing and growling dominatrix into leather and weird clothes, just one who would get naked or wear nothing but a totally transparent silky slip and sweetly enjoy applying belt or paddle to my rear, reading or hearing stories of inhuman cruelty, or watching filmed scenes of utter brutality. Go to boxing matches, afterwards go home and get naked? Only thing, I don't really like the idea of anyone being hurt, as in real torture, just fiction, fantasy, and simulated acts. The idea is to get turned on by something on the dark side without actually causing real pain...unless a little on my fine body. A big plus if my mean girl has a nice round swiveling derriere. Is there any ounce of reality in this yearning?

Yes. I have her and you're shit out of luck

how long have you had a thing for women with... a borderline personality disorder ?

how long have you made comments about people you don't know, on a topic you don't understand?

it could happen Honestly all persuasions are out there. If you can think of the fantasy there is probably another person who has had the other side of it. As for the chances of connecting, that is the hard part. Tops, bottoms, doms, and subs are not always the people you expect them to be. I am a pacifist, slightly androgenous male who is also a rope top. My personality is not the least bit dominant, I absolutely seek out cooperation and this manifests itself in doing kink in a somewhat non-traditionally justified way. It works I guess, part of my pacifism I think is the ability to touch and control human violence and bondage through kink. Doesn't seem much more crazy then what you are trying to find. A lot of folks like the through of torture but have no desire to commit human cruelty on non-consenting victims. Good luck in the search.

Wow, a 3-digit IQ Thanks for the intelligent response in this pool (cesspool?) of troglodytes. I've scoured thousands of websites and find photos either of amazons wrapped in tight leather or of men torturing and abusing helpless women. I HATE that stuff. 44251! used to have a site for guys who liked to look at girls watching boxing. Not bad, their turn-on is our turn-on. I read a piece about public flogging in Pakistan with mikes to amplify screaming, and guys bringing their girlfriends to watch. Me too, pacifist, opposed to capital punishment, wouldn't want to be there in the crowd, but like to imagine the girlfriends in bed afterwards. Try looking at nekkid-girl photos and imagining a shapely one enjoying a man in pain, but it doesn't work. Yep, will just keep trying.